Narcissistic abuse is soul-shattering, it can make you believe that everything was your fault and you were the crazy one. It attacks your self-worth, leaving you with self-doubt and a feeling that you may never heal.
But, sometimes all it takes is just one session to have the clarity that you need to go on.
Narcissistic abuse can be defined as "the biggest betrayal", where you get abused by the person you trust and care about the most. It's the kind of dynamic where the more you try to help the abuser the more you will end up hurting yourself.
You may have come here after finally accepting that something is not right in the relationship dynamic, and trust me you are in the right place.
If you have been abused (Mentally/Physically/Verbally/Emotionally/Financially) by someone you trusted then you must be feeling confused and must be having lots of whys and what-ifs with a craving for proper closure.
How does abuse recovery work?
Recovery from abuse is a process that is subjective and varies from person to person, depending on the duration of abuse and intensity of the trauma endured.
The healing journey begins with the answers to whys and what-ifs to gain clarity and headspace to de-learn and learn something new.
The second stage is to learn about "The Need", a need that was being fulfilled or you were expecting it to be fulfilled or you were imagining it to be fulfilled by the abuser. This need is what kept you excusing all the red flags which you saw but chose to ignore (consciously/unconsciously).
In most cases "The Need" is associated with something that you craved in your childhood, it can be anything from the unmet need of having enough attention, care & love to having an urge to have a perfect family one day. Or sometimes you just chase an illusion, a mental image of a person that is nowhere near reality.
Understanding the need is the key, most coaches/therapists fail to understand this and keep wasting time in understanding and diagnosing the abuser.
Once we have an understanding of the need, we begin the journey to healing the traumas. Traumas from your childhood, from adult life, or traumas that are interlinked to your childhood and adult life. This is the healing step that is like a deep cleansing of your subconscious.
How do I work?
There is a reason people come to me when traditional therapy fails.
I strongly believe in giving the absolute clarity of mind, abuse, and the need that made you fall victim to the abuse in the first place. For me, it's not only about helping you heal from the trauma but also ensuring that you do not fall victim to your needs again in life.
I use different modalities and hypnosis to directly work with you on a subconscious level. I focus on healing your childhood needs/ traumas along with the narcissistic traumas while helping you reprogram your mind for a better future.
You can be confident that you will get answers to all your questions and doubts as well as receive the best professional help and guidance. I make sure to stay in touch with you between sessions to make sure you are progressing as planned.
You deserve to heal and you will heal, the only thing that you need is the right guidance.
I am ready to be your guide, are you ready to heal?